He
is not the way what I expected from him, down the memory lane if u ask me what
he did for me, I will say nothing. No Sacrifices, no promises, and no more Love
between us… She trembled hard; her voice is engulfed with mixed felling of rage
and wretchedness. This is what I heard from my friend who married a person
without her parents’ consent whom she thought that he will be her soul mate for
the rest of her life. I can very well
appreciate her grit for the way she handled the hardships and finally making it
successful by ending up in stepping to next phase of marrying him. We all were happy that her sacrifices have
been showered her as blessings that she got settled in life. Overwhelmed to see
her, I thought of hearing her sturdy, powerful relationship clandestine of five
long years, finally ended up in displeasing with heaps of disturbing thoughts
that treaded on my mind.
Is
relationship becoming so valueless? Is it so easy to break up? Abandoning a loved one at their time of
greatest need? The Decisions taken on haste is neither good nor will be
fruitful later. Do those people realize what hurdles are gonna come as a
setback. Will that leave a sense of guilty or self –doubt, wondering what we
did with our loved one and to our relationship.
When
everything is well in love, what’s happening during those time when it takes a
necessary step to evaluate your options and make difficult choices. Naive of
the reason which bought them in the stage of calling OFF is bringing tears and
struggle in their loved ones. All those dreams to become a good wife, a good
mother, a good daughter in law and vice- versa for guy will be shattered
like a broken glass piece, where the reflections
shows us what we are.
The
breakup of a relationship or a marriage is a traumatic event. Before this
trigger a bout of depression, try all those means and ways to make things well
and good. Value the relationship,
resolve the existing problems, provide enough space for your partner, and
reduce your expectations……. steps are so many to just jolt down in a white
paper? Will these be an effective step to make those two beautiful people stay
together and lead a happy life. Overwhelmed with joy and happiness when two
people who just love each other hold their hands to keep up the promises, to
support each other during hard times, to be a soul mate till breathe the last is
finally ending up everything. I am still
confused is that so easy to call off a Relationship?
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